Saturday, January 05, 2008
read from my 2 cousins blog,
which i think its true too.
Try sorting out your surrounding friends into diiferent categories and you would be able find out who are your true friends and who may not be.
1) who are the friends that grew up with you and know you well ?
2) who are the friends that stand by you and is always there for you ?
3) who are the friends that only come to you when they have problems but is not there for you when we need help ?
4) who are the friends that have other agenda for getting close to you?
5) who are the friends that give without remembering and take without forgetting?
6) who are the friends that can still accept you knowing all your faults and weakness and mistakes?
7) who are the friends that you feel comfortable with even though there is silence when met up?
8) who are the friends that you can only hang out with for fun, merry, drinks and party and not as buddy and bosom friend?
9) who are the friends that will not back stab you for their own personal benefits?
10) who are the friends that is willingly to listen to your sorrows, your cries, your grievances and complains even though its late at night?Friends.. comes and goes easily.but who are the one who really stay by ur side when u needed them most?who are the sincere one that despite what happen, they wil give u their advise and lend their helping hand?agreed with diana that Those whom you think are your TRUE friends, may not be the ones you are always sticking around with.WHILE
Going through the phonebook contacts, friends whom you only communicate tru sms or phone could be those who can really hear your sorrows or vent gievances on.所谓知己难找u can have a lot of friends, but not 知己.As we grow up, we made new friends and old friends goes.im glad that i got my groups of friends that though we are busy,they are just a call away.though we seldom meet up,but its good to know that you are still in their heart.Despite how badly i treat them, they are still there.no one knows how long u can stay in contact with ur friends,and life is just so unpredictable.so , cherish those around u, esp families.i may not be a good friend,but i always try my best to be one.i may have failed,which im really sorry about it.pls forgive me and do tell me if i someone neglect anyone k?i have found mine.so have u found urs today?
JudiOng blogged at 12:22 AM